Breathe for two minutes

Breathe.

In for five seconds, out for five. Breathe gently, and stop if it feels uncomfortable.

How it works

Follow the light around the ring. Breathe in as it climbs, and out as it comes back down. Each breath takes ten seconds, about six breaths a minute, and the whole session is two minutes.

Breathe through your nose if you can, and let the out-breath be easy rather than forced. If you feel light-headed, go back to breathing normally. That’s fine too.

Why slow breathing

Breathing at around six breaths a minute is associated with calmer body signals and feeling more relaxed.1 It’s the pace most studies use, though the best pace varies a little from person to person.2 Across trials, breathing practices modestly reduced stress and anxiety.3

It won’t decide anything for you, and it isn’t a treatment. It can turn the volume down for long enough that you don’t act on the urge. More on getting through the moment: what to do when you want to text your ex.

Sources

  1. Zaccaro, A., Piarulli, A., Laurino, M., Garbella, E., Menicucci, D., Neri, B., & Gemignani, A. (2018). How breath-control can change your life: A systematic review on psycho-physiological correlates of slow breathing. Frontiers in Human Neuroscience, 12, 353. doi.org/10.3389/fnhum.2018.00353. 15 small studies in healthy adults. ↩

  2. Lehrer, P. M., & Gevirtz, R. (2014). Heart rate variability biofeedback: How and why does it work? Frontiers in Psychology, 5, 756. doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2014.00756. A review by the method’s developers. ↩

  3. Fincham, G. W., Strauss, C., Montero-Marin, J., & Cavanagh, K. (2023). Effect of breathwork on stress and mental health: A meta-analysis of randomised-controlled trials. Scientific Reports, 13, 432. doi.org/10.1038/s41598-022-27247-y. Most included trials had a moderate risk of bias. ↩

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